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“[ID: Poem Number Two on Bell’s Theorem, or the New Physicality of Long Distance Love by June Jordan
There is no chance that we will fall apart
There is no chance
There are no parts.]
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[ID: Poem Number Two on Bell’s Theorem, or the New Physicality of Long Distance Love by June Jordan

There is no chance that we will fall apart

There is no chance

There are no parts.]

There’s a Senate inquiry into the worsening rental crisis!

Thanks to the Greens you can now write a submission to a committee inquiry into how the rental crisis is affecting you and your community, provide evidence, and shape the reports that’ll be given to the National Cabinet in September and November to suggest how they can address the rental crisis.

This is super important! The information that YOU give to this inquiry will inform both the state and federal government about just how dire the situation is and help it understand how it needs to do more to fix the rental crisis in Australia.

So share - and don’t forget to click here to submit BY 28 JULY!!!

GOOD NEWS! The deadline for submission has been extended to 1st of September!

SO YOU CAN STILL TELL THE COMMITTEE HOW RENTING SUCKS AND PRESSURE THE GOVERNMENT TO IMPROVE RENTERS’ RIGHTS AND HELP WITH HOUSING!

BAD NEWS - Landlords are currently making up a THIRD of submissions! Which means we need to make sure RENTERS are the ones who are heard!

So submit! It’s quick and simple. Click on the above links and write about your experiences!

we are really really close to having money but it’s delayed a few more days. my car was stolen and damaged so i have to pay for rides to the new job i started last week and we need food. i can’t afford both.

if you have it to spare, pls consider helping me and my partner eat tonight 🙏🏾

cash: torkz428

paypal: torkz

lots of notes (thank you for the shares) but no donations. even a dollar helps 🙏🏾

how many times are intersex people going to have to remind you all to stop throwing us under the bus. when i see dyadic trans people say shit like “no kids are ever prescribed hormones/have surgery” you’re ignoring the hundreds of intersex kids every year who are forced into “normalizing treatments” because the idea of letting kids exist outside the sex binary is something doctors refuse to let happen. doctors and legislators are both incredibly interested in controlling our bodily autonomy as both trans and intersex people—they don’t want any of us to have the freedom to live authentically as ourselves. for trans people, that shows up like restricting access to gender affirming care. for intersex people, that looks like non consensual surgery and hormones that is often times used almost like conversion therapy, especially if you’re both trans and intersex. y’all CANNOT forget about us when you’re calling out transphobia, because I promise you that the transphobes have not forgot about us, as almost every single transphobic bill about restricting gender affirming care in the United States has also left explicit provisions to ensure that intersex genital mutilation and nonconsensual hormone therapy can continue. Dyadic trans people, you really should be able to understand why doctors denying people the ability to live as their authentic self without coercion is a problem, and you all NEED to stop acting like our fights for bodily autonomy are in conflict when in reality, it is two sides of the same coin.

okay to reblog

teens on social media are pressuring each other into performing the happy Smiler challenge in which they try to become a shining sunbeam and inspiration to all they meet

Love to see it when pathetic, entitled, and unrepentantly authoritarian parents cry about how their children completely cut them out of their lives as a consequence of their own terrible behavior.

Then they post about how miserable they are while also regretting not being authoritarian enough to prevent this, showing that they lack the self-awareness to even realize what they did wrong even though their children probably already told them.

Absolutely no sympathy for the parents. Huge win for their children.

"Maybe if I had been more controlling and demanded more gender-conformity my child would not have become trans and left me. I now want to die."

The more you talk the more clear it becomes that your child did the right thing and is happier away from you.

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Stalker moment.

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Here is even better advice: The tighter the leash the further people run when it snaps. Your child will learn to bide their time and play pretend around you but any actual love towards you will erode and you will end up like all of these other miserable abusers on estranged parent forums and transphobe comment sections.

it's about the small acts of intimacy... forehead kisses, putting jewelry on you, rubbing your hand with their thumb, putting a jacket on you, touching your necklace, running your hands through their hair, wiping away their tears, peeling them an orange, un/zipping their dress, tying their shoelaces, holding hands, removing an eyelash from their cheek, washing their hair, putting an anklet on them, tucking their hair behind their ear, sorting out their collar, untangling their necklaces, drinking out of a cup in their hands

Quick shoutout to everyone whose disability directly conflicts with their passion.

People who love light and color and photography but have extremely sensitive eyes. People who love food but have digestive disorders and intolerances. People who would play every instrument they could get their hands on but lack dexterity and muscle strength to play. People who can’t make themselves focus long enough to study the field they want to be in. People who want to paint and draw and sculpt but can’t coordinate their hands well enough, or cramp up every time they hold a brush/pencil/tool. People across all passions who face a massive barrier to learning because following a set of instructions is difficult when they don’t feel specific enough.

There’s nothing more frustrating than knowing you’d be good at something and that it’s not your fault you can’t prove it. Especially in a world that seems to only recognize top level picture perfect talent at all times. Your passion isn’t negated by not being able to follow it, and neither is your potential. You’re not lazy. Do what you can and fuck ‘em if they think it’s not good enough.

but if there’s platonic kissing whats next??!!!!????? sex without romance??????!? romance without sex?????!!!!? friendship?????? friends with benefits????!!! platonic lOVE????? staying out of other people’s business???????? WHO KNOWSS

I don’t have food stamps but I need to know how to eat well for $4/day. Thank you for this.

I love this cookbook!

anarchofoxxy

Tips and tricks on how to survive being working class.

I’ve seen this kind of thing before and a lot of them are full of random weird shit you’d never make…because of time constraints or like, it just sounds super gross.

But this one had a whole section that’s just “Things on Toast”. Another that was all about putting crap in your oatmeal to make it better. Those are fairly pedestrian and don’t take forever.

I haven’t looked through the whole thing yet but so far it’s actually pretty practical. Also if you’re broke like me and don’t know how to make Dal, you should get on that. 

I also liked that there’s this at the beginning:

This book isn’t challenging you to live on so little; it’s a resource in case that’s your reality. In May 2014, there were 46 million Americans on food stamps. Untold millions more—in particular, retirees and students—live under similar constraints.

Been there. Done that. Advice on this art is always welcome.

The link above seems to be broken; here’s one that still works.

The Good And Cheap cookbook is 100% free as a PDF download from the author’s website and is available in English and Spanish. It is practical, tasty, easy, and kind. Physical copies are one of my top “so you have your own place now” gifts. Highly recommend.

(note that the PDF is oriented the same as the physical book - two square pages - so it’s more landscape format and might be difficult to read on a phone)

a little more information regarding the maui wildfires:

  • medical workers on the ground are describing finding hundreds of bodies. the current death toll in the media is, unfortunately, only a fraction of the reality
  • hospital workers are describing injuries and trauma as if survivors had come out of a warzone
  • thousands are still missing
  • an apartment complex for the elderly was lost. not everyone could get out. people were saying goodbye to loved ones over the phone
  • people who did get out of lahaina were leaving with ashes covering their faces and nothing but the clothes on their backs. people are losing everything.

hotels are still operating. hotels are still operating. they are not the ones offering shelters or housing or food. even bowling alleys are offering shelter, but hotels have the audacity to build on burial sites but not open their doors to local families who have lost everything.

donate to maui united way, the maui food bank, mutual aid, and maui humane society

Hey if you work for a major company that you fucking hate, but they also have a Diversity, Inclusion, Culture Department… check if they offer donation matching.

Your $10 donation can turn into $20

Your $50 donation can turn into $100

I completely forgot until an org put it at the bottom.

can you explain family abolition in a few words?

txttletale replied:

txttletale:

sure. there is no one unitary ‘family abolitionist’ perspective so be aware that i’m explaining this as a marxist and not as an anarchist or a radical feminist.

basically, “the family” is a social construct rather than a fixed self-evident truth. the family has been created and can be shaped, altered, or–indeed–abolished. this is evinced by the broad anthropological and historical record of radical transformations in what constitutes 'the family’ (cf. clans, the extended family, the nuclear family). viewing the family as such opens it up to critique and also to the concept that it could be replaced with something better (in much the same way that, for communist and anarchist, refusing to accept the timelessness / naturalization of the bourgeois state opens up new horizons of political thought outside of engagement with electoral politics.)

among these critiques of the family are:

  • that it is a tool of patriarchal control over women and children by creating an economic dependence upon spouses / parents
  • ergo, that it enables and causes 'abuse’ – that child abuse, spousal abuse, and intimate partner violence are not abberations of 'the family’ but in fact a natural consequence of its base premises re: power and control
  • that it serves as a site of invisiblised economic labour (e.g. housework)
  • that it is a tool of the capitalist (formerly the feudal) economy’s reproduction of inequality via e.g. inheritance laws
  • that it serves as a site of normalization and reproduction of hegemonic ideology–i.e. that it is the site where heteronormativity, cisnormativity, gender roles, class positionality, & more are ingrained in children

among solutions family abolitionists propose to remedy it are:

  • the total dissolution of any legal privilege conferred by romantic or blood relationship in favour of total freedom for any group of people to form a household and cohabitate
  • the recognition of housework, the work of childrearing, & the general tasks of social reproduction as 'real’ labour to be distributed fairly and not according to formal or informal (feminized) hierarchies
  • the economic and legal freedom of children–(i.e., allowing children unconditional access to food and shelter outside 'the family’, allowing children the legal right to informed consent and self-determination)
  • similarly, the emancipation of women from economic dependence on their partners–both of these can only really be achieved via socialism (as marx put it, 'women in the workplace’ only trade patriarchal dependence upon a husband for patriarchal dependence upon an employer)
  • communal caretaking of children, the sick, & the elderly

yeah. i know. this is a lot of words. its not few words. sorry. it’s a complex topic innit. this is a few words For Me consideri ng that i’ve got a long-ass google doc open where i’m writing up a whole damn essay on this exact topic.

tldr: the family is not inevitable, it is constructed & can be replaced with something better. full economic freedom from dependence on interpersonal familial relationships for everybody now. check out cuba’s 2022 family code for an idea of what this could look like as practical legislation.

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